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Jul 6, 2023Liked by Kaspa Thompson (they/them)

Oh, so interesting! I struggle with 'gurus' and always say it's because I've had way too many middle-aged men telling me what to do all my life - but I have been failing to recognise, acknowledge, be grateful for everything and everyone I have learned from.

Deep bow🙏

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Jul 11, 2023Liked by Kaspa Thompson (they/them)

Thank you for this wise and reflective piece, Kaspa. I read it several days ago but didn't have time or space to comment. Circling back now to do so. First of all, I appreciate learning about Pure Land practice from you and Satya. As a Theravada Buddhist, I never learned much about Amida Buddha -- what a deeply beautiful concept. I am glad I now know a bit more about Pure Land, thanks to you. Also, many blessings to you and your community as you renew your vows and your commitment to your path, sans a teacher. May the light lead you on.

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Thank you, sending blessings from here to you as well.

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The Sam Lee story is wonderful, that the tree is still there. Finding the old stories from elders is a duty now that they are often ignored in modern society. However, I am very wary of gurus. My uncle knew Ösel Tendzin when he was Tom Rich, Jr. I learned of his problematic legacy as I was learning the teachings of Zen Buddhism via Alan Watts. I am glad that I did not become one of Rich's students. I do not paint all gurus with that brush, but I am very wary of them in all disciplines (martial arts, tracking skills, etc) as the human ego is capable of terrible things when it craves worship.

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I think wariness is entirely appropriate and understandable. I know many people who have received a great deal from that kind of relationship, and I know many people who have been harmed by them. The aim here is for a non-guru way forward....

Yes, I loved the tree story. And I'm so pleased Sam Lee has a project of collecting these songs, and a place where they are available. Apparently young travellers don't like to learn to old songs from their elder these days - but are perfectly happy to learn them from YouTube and TikTok!

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